When you choose to fight for renewal, you’re saying, “I want to share my life with you – the messy, beautiful, unfiltered reality of it.” Deciding to fight for your troubled and failing marriage is not merely about salvaging what’s left; it’s about mustering up the courage to breathe life back into a union that’s gasping for air.
Let’s be real – when you commit to renewing a failing marriage, you’re essentially asking your wife to marry you all over again. It’s not just a vow renewal; it’s a deep, soul-searching commitment to rebuild, rekindle, and reignite the flames of a love that’s been flickering in the dark for a long time.
The Gravity of the Decision:
This decision carries weight, the kind that can either anchor you in a solid foundation of a lasting legacy and love … or … drag you into the deep unforgiving abyss of regret – the choice is yours.
“We must all suffer from one of two pains: the pain of discipline or the pain of regret. The difference is discipline weighs ounces while regret weighs tons.”
Jim Rohn
It’s about recognizing that renewing a failing marriage is not a band-aid; it’s major surgery, and you’re the surgeon with the power to breathe life back into your relationship.
Boldness with Empathy:
This isn’t the time for wishy-washy decisions or half-hearted attempts. It’s about being bold, staring into the eyes of uncertainty, and saying, “I’m all in.” This is about the conviction to do whatever is needed to make it work. Yet, in this boldness, there’s room for empathy (this is where a lot of men screw things up and make the situation worse). It’s understanding that both of you carry the weight of the past, and renewal requires a joint effort, a shared commitment – but it’s up to you to lead the charge to make that happen.
The Call to Action:
So, gentlemen, as you stand at the crossroads of a life-changing decision, recognize the magnitude of what you’re about to embark on. It’s not just about saving a marriage; it’s about building a resilient love that stands the test of time. It’s about looking into your wife’s eyes and reaffirming your desire to share not just space but your entire existence with her.
Fighting to renew your failing marriage is not for the faint of heart. It’s a heavyweight decision that requires grit, determination, and a profound understanding of the responsibility you’re shouldering. The weak-minded will crumble under the weight of anger, resentment, and bitterness. So, are you ready to step back into the ring and ask your wife to marry you all over again?
This is your alter:
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The choice is yours.
I would love to start all over,but she keeps saying she is done,not only with me ,but with guys,men,period,we still talk,and get along great,I still love her,and I own up to my own failures,and faults,I don’t believe in divorce,I hate it,miss my wife.my queen.