You Will Renew Your Marriage When…

You will renew your marriage WHEN…

Your SOLUTIONS are greater than your EXCUSES!

Look, I bet you’ve probably said…

  • “My wife said she’s done.”

  • “My wife told me that nothing I do will make a difference.”

  • “She says there’s nothing I can do to save our marriage.”

REALLY?!?!?

WHEN THE FVCK DID YOU DECIDE TO BE A TRAINED MONKEY AND DO EXACTLY WHAT YOU’RE TOLD?!?!

When did YOU decide that you would just walk away because your wife said you need to?

Wow….OK.

I didn’t know that so many supposed “men” would be so easily controlled and told what to do INSTEAD of fighting to renew their marriage.

And when I say “fighting to renew the marriage,” I’m referring to doing the RIGHT things in the RIGHT order at the RIGHT time!

And you’ll probably argue with me (because you’re defending your ego) and tell me that you’re doing ‘everything you can to save your marriage.’

Yeah, ok… but you don’t know what you don’t know!

You don’t know what to do…

Or when to do it…

Or the impact of your actions…

And if you did, YOU WOULDN’T BE IN THIS MESS!!!

So everything that you’re doing is making the marriage WORSE!

BUT…..

You still continue to do what you ‘think’ is best because that’s all you know to do and you don’t have the insight or discipline to stop doing the actions (or lack of actions) that are making the marriage WORSE!

So like a merry-go-round…

The marriage just keeps going around and around and around and around and around WITHOUT ANY progress.

NOW WHAT??!?!?

You’re in this “pain”…

You’re clinging to your ego… (and probably don’t even realize it)

You’re spinning your wheels and going NOWHERE!!!

But that’s all you know and I can’t fault you for that.

But I CAN and I WILL fault YOU for NOT DECIDING to set aside your EGO to renew YOUR marriage…

And seek out SOLUTIONS to your challenges.

But instead, if you’re like most [now divorced] men, you’re finding fault in everything and creating EXCUSES in your head that PREVENT you from renewing your marriage.

It starts with YOUR MINDSET!

So that begs the question…

ARE YOU MARRIED TO YOUR EGO AND YOUR EXCUSES?!?!?!

What’s it going to be?

If you’re staying stuck in your ways, then I cannot and will NOT help you.

BUT……

If you’re ready to make some changes in your life, your marriage, your family, and your legacy…

Then send me a message and let’s continue the conversation…

Or drop a comment below and we’ll go from there.

10 thoughts on “You Will Renew Your Marriage When…”

  1. I need some true direction . “ No, contact “ can’t be the only way . I want to fix me and lead my wife back home !

    1. Philip Douthett

      Hi Bruce, thanks for reaching out. She’s telling you that she thinks of you more as a friend than a husband. You’re somewhat interesting to her, but not attractive. I address this extensively within my Facebook group. Have you joined it? If not, join here: https://www.facebook.com/groups/mensmarriagemastery/. I’m confident that you’re going to find the many hours of videos that I have released within the group to be of great help, support, and direction. When you join, be sure to interact with everyone so we can get you pointed in the right direction.

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