Simply put, there are things that you can change/influence/control, and there are things that you cannot.
We both know that. No surprise there.
However, I’ve had countless clients and other men throughout various types of conversations, tell me that they want to change something about their wife.
OK…I get that.
I’d be lying if I said there weren’t things about my wife I’d like to change.
But I also know that it would be a waste of my time if I tried to make those changes the same old way that we hear so many men attempting to do.
In other words, the “traditional” methods leave you empty.
Insecure.
Incomplete.
Unchanged.
And aggravated because you’re doing what you’ve been taught and it’s not working!
Look…
There are things within your marriage that you can control…
And like I just said, there are things that you cannot control.
My point here is this:
If you want to change your wife, you have to change yourself first. In other words, lead the charge from the front.
The man you have been in the past and the man you are currently is the man that has gotten you to this point in your marriage.
If you want to change the future projectile of the relationship, you have to make some changes that reflect that desired change.
Why?
Simple…
Your wife only knows you for who you are now and who you have been in the past.
She doesn’t know the man you will become.
YET!
You have to feel that desired change within yourself and then implement those changes.
But the action is the challenging part.
You have to know what to do and when to do it.
If you don’t know the correct actions, you’re setting yourself up for disaster.
But you still have time to change that.
Start here:
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